My husband and I moved to Pacific Grove Senior Living on September 7, 2023.
We moved from The Sea Ranch, a remote community on the north coast. I am 68 and living with Multiple Sclerosis and use a mobility scooter and walker to get around. My husband is 76 and mobile. We are both very active and engaged in our own ways, but…well…we are both aging! Like many in our situation, we moved to be closer to our kids, services and accessible activities.
We looked at senior living residences in Salinas, Monterey and Pacific Grove. We fell in love with the historic building that houses PGSL. It truly is a one of a kind grand building, built in the 1920s as a hotel in beautiful Pacific Grove on the Monterey Bay. Think vaulted ceilings, beveled glass, solid wood paneling and old hotel mailboxes in the lobby. Our apartment looks out over the Salinas hills and blue waters of the bay.
To be honest, we were warned about the new owners at PGSL. We heard about the new corporate owners who had taken over from the bankrupt nonprofit that had run it since the 1950s when the hotel became senior residences as part of the Methodist church. An anonymous outside worker who was serving clients at PGSL actually came up to us and urged us to talk to staff and residents before signing on the bottom line.
However, we were anxious to get going with our move and get our new life started. We knew that our contract would be month to month after the initial commitment and we decided to move forward.
Our first month was extremely difficult here. To the cut to the chase, here’s what happened:
- We spent several months working with a salesperson to secure the apartment we wanted. We completed and submitted necessary paper work.
- During one of our visits, she introduced us to Executive Director who was “too busy” to meet with us.
- Just before we moved in, we got a text from our experienced salesperson that she had been fired.
- We were never contacted by management about her departure.
- We had an “in person appointment” with new salesperson to go over voluminous paper work required to move in.
- When we arrived, we announced ourselves to receptionist (these folks are a rare bright spot in the office) who then notified her. She was not available and did not show.
- We then told receptionist we had to talk to someone about our move and paperwork. We insisted and would not take no for an answer.
- The salesperson then showed and gave us another packet of same paperwork to do again. We refused and asked to meet with person who could review paperwork we had already submitted. We were then escorted to person who oversees medical paperwork (a phlebotomist by training) for entrance to facility.
- She went over our paperwork submitted previously with us in her office with salesperson looking over our shoulders. It was approved.
- We moved in with help of professional movers and our adult sons.
- We did NOT receive any paperwork, orientation, manual or safety information about our apartment. We did NOT receive any welcome or personal contact with anyone from management. We still have not received any of the above items, 10 months later.
- Shortly after we moved in, the Executive Director was fired.
- An interim administrator was put in place. We never heardy from him with a welcome or apology.
- The experienced Activities Director went out on medical leave and then resigned abruptly several weeks after we arrived.
- Our fellow residents welcomed us, to be sure, and also shared their dismay at what was happening to their community. See my next post for how residents are working together to build a new reality for our “village”.